"I want to be the one to take care of my baby."
This is what our JasSuccess guest told herself when she got pregnant.
Which wasn't easy by the way.
Because she was advised to be on bed rest for the 9 months she was pregnant.
And since she doesn't want anyone to take care of her baby, the only option left for her is to work from home.
Meet Estella.
She's a former call center agent and IT programmer.
Who now enjoys staying at home with her family while working.
No need to spend hours on the road.
Thanks to freelancing.
If you're like her who wants to spend more quality time with your family WHILE still providing for their needs...
Watch her interview on this replay.
INTRODUCTION
Estella Dacuba is a loving wife and a mother, whose priority is her family. She was a former IT Programmer from big IT companies here in the Philippines, and now, a full-time freelancer. Let’s take a look at how dedicated Estella was to pursue her career as a freelancer.
Notable Quotes:
Estella’s Journey to Freelancing:
Q&A Highlights:
So what do you call yourself now?
Yung nilagay ko sa Facebook ko is Facebook Ad Strategist kase it kinda sounds better to me.
Yung pag lean mo sa socialization, are you a very social person?
Medyo gitna. When I was younger, I was extrovert pero eventually when I get older mas gusto ko nalang yung nasa bahay so I guess I’m more on the middle.
For you, iba ang mindset mo. Iba ang parang nagregister sa utak mo na “Sige lang dahil pinag-aaralan ko pa lang ito”. Is this your character noon pa, even during your IT years?
Kaya ko naisip yun kase feeling ko I’m at my best kapag ang nasa mindset ko pinapractice ko. It’s more on kinokondisyon ko yung mind ko na do your best. Para hindi kabahan.
Any tips po para macondition naming sarili naming before the interview?
Ang ginagawa ko yung kinuwento ko kanina na I really researched kung sino ba yung mga mag iinterview sa akin, or yung company so that ikaw din, makaprepare ka din ng question for them. Di lang naman sila dapat yung magtanong sayo. Ikaw din. You ask them questions if it’s going to be aligned with your goals. Yung time, is it something na flexible ba or meron ba siyang schedule. There could be a lot of different things and then para din sa umpisa maka-relate ka sa kanila so that you would already know about them and alam nila na “This person really researched about us. Hindi siya basta basta applicant lang”.
How much time did it take for you to research? Maraming mga nagsasabi na, “dapat ano, pag lagpas five (5) applicants, hayaan mo na”, so you are competing against time. Ang sabi naman ng iba is magresearch, and yung ginawa mo discovering that she is a podcaster, she is an advocate for women, that takes quite some time, you know. How much time did you devote in researching for this client before you approached her?
Siguro it took me more than an hour din. Na-enjoy ko din kase na feeling mo nag iinvestigate ka. Meron kase sa website niya na, dun pa lang ang dami mon ang makukuha na I could relate. Pareho kami. So yun yung nilagay ko sa cover letter ko.
May attitude ka na yung kailangang give and take. Kailangan even. Hindi ka nilalamangan. Was this you even before freelancing?
Hindi lang talaga ako takot mag-fail, mag commit ng mistake. I guess yun yung nadala ko with freelancing na kung magkamali ka man or di mo makuha yung client mo, wala namang nawala sa’yo kase wala ka pa naman talagang client. Pero may na-gain kang experience.
Medyo mapili ka sa clients kase marami kang terms and conditions na gusto mong ma meet, but in exchange of that I am sure na maraming rejections sa simula. So, how were you able to deal with that?
Syempre magpre-prepare ka and everything. Medyo excited na I don’t know what to expect. May mga ganun din na iisipin mo how’s this interview gonna be. Interesting sa akin makita yung iba’t ibang personality din nila. Mahilig kase ako mag observe ng tao, so it’s something na interesting to me. What I do is kung hindi man kase syempre mag-iintay ka if kukunin ka ba nila, wala naman talaga akong nafe-feel na bad feelings. Talagang okay lang kase iniisip ko na numbers game siya eh. The more you apply, the more you talk to people, the more you get rejected, eventually you’ll get something. Trust the process lang.
Kase yung pregnancy mo affected sa freelancing mo. How were you able to get back? Madali lang ba nung bumalik ka?
Ano siya, something na pinag-usapan talaga namin ng husband ko kung ready na ako, and then syempre kung ilang hours lang pwede. Actually, before nakakapagwork lang ako kung tulog siya. So yung nap time niya tsaka yung tulog nya ng gabi, yun lang yung time akong nagwowork kaya sobrang part-time at saka flexible lang dapat yung schedule ko. Sometimes bumabalik kami sa bahay ng parents ko para there will be someone to take care of her, lalo na kapag may mga meetings na minsan sunod sunod. Hindi lang sa client, iba-iba. Malaking help din talaga yung family, yung community na meron ka right now, especially COVID so talagang family lang naman yung mapupuntahan mo talaga. Wala yung mga pwede mong iwan sa mga laruan sa mall. Struggle din talaga ba magwork tapos may inaalagaan kang baby, tapos magluluto ka for the family, kaya very slow din yung progress ko which is okay lang because and primary ano ko is the family eh. Now I think I can add more time, kaya ngayon lang ulit ako parang nag-aano ng ibang goals.
Sabihin mo nang with what you learn from before until now. Pag mag-aapply ka sa, let’s pretend na wala ka pang client but with your knowledge right now, wala ka pang client, maghahanap ka ng contracts. What are your non-negotiables?
Una, tinitingnan ko ang ino-offer nilang rate. Chini-check ko din kung mga sinusulat nila what they need, of course hindi lahat mabibigay mo pero at least yung main meron. Kase minsan pag sobrang ikli, medyo doubtful ako na baka scam siya kase wala siya masyado binibigay na details. Mas gusto ko yung detailed, binibigay yung details. Andun yung name niya, hindi niya tinatago yun. Ang ginagawa ko kase talaga nagre-research ako. I really take my time to research about that company, or that person. If I find worth it naman to apply for them then I’ll go for it. Talagang non-negotiable ko is sa rate talaga.
"Invest in Knowledge"
#practice is part of learning 🙂
Some clients specifically look for Filipino freelancers kasi mura daw tayo magcharge..
Ricam Jay Vargas
ano po ang niche mo? 🙂
I feel you po,, hindi ko pa din alam ang niche ko
Wow! Building connections, ang galing!
hello mate Estella Dacuba 😀
Knowing your value!
We should not sell ourselves short..
What website po yung first apply niyo as VA po.
Condition your mind to do your best
Any tips po para macondition namin sarili namin before the interview?
Ang ganda ng motivation mo sa sarili mo Mam estella, something for me to try. #confidence
Ang hirap, e condition ang mindset lalo na pagwlang-wala kna.parang last chance muna.
Where did you get your first client po?
Sa onlinejobs.ph po. =)
Be confident and be trustworthy .. Galing! Im learning a lot
#know your worth wow ang dami kong natutunan
#knowyourworth
We're learning a lot! What a great attitude as a freelancer, Ms. Estella.
Its really an eye-opener for us, newbie, CONFIDENCE....
Don't be afraid of rejections. Walang mawawala when a client rejects us. We'll only gain valuable experience. 🙂
Failure is a process to Success
I like that attitude sa work, yung #confidence ,#trusttheprocess and #knowyourworth 🙂
Ms. Estella is one of your best guest po. Andami po nyang na share na practical tips and as a mom she is an inspiration
Ang inspiring po! Thank you for the words of wisdom. I agree, makikita din namin si "The One"
Thank you for sharing your story Ms Estella
Thankypu for inspiring us Ms.Estella
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#Story We' re got learning a lot of the story mam stella, god bless.
Kapag nanay ka talaga gagawin lahat para sa anak
Agree!
Tips for cover letter po for newbie
Hi Leynarie, please check this link. I hope makatulong. https://vabootcamp.ph/blog/how-to-write-effective-cover-letters/
Find a virtual community that will help you be motivated in your career.
Sometimes rejection in life is Redirection 🙂
https://www.facebook.com/groups/fbadsmastermindph
Tama po ba ang link sa itaas, Ms. Estella? 🙂
Yes Sister Estela... 🙂
Few Takeaways from Ms. Estella's interview
1. Research about the client
2. Setting our Mindset: We're not just an employee, but a business partner
3. In exchange of our non-negotiables, let's prove our value to the client and that we are worth with the offer
4. Reflection: "Is this person (client) I want to work with?"
5. Always learn from people (expand our network)
6. Don't be afraid to make mistakes
7. Be honest
8. Willingness to help the client
Thank you, miss Estella Dacuba! Daming takeaways. GOD bless you more.
Thank you Sir and Ms. Estella
thanks for sharing
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How to be Va po?
Hi Sis Estella Dacuba!!!
Do you know to speak english language because all world spoke this language . I don't know Philipines language but I'm interested about you are talkin' in your live.
Hi sis Estella!
Laica J. Bangeles
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